softmmu/physmem: Extend ram_block_discard_(require|disable) by two discard types

softmmu/physmem: Extend ram_block_discard_(require|disable) by two discard types

We want to separate the two cases whereby we discard ram
- uncoordinated: e.g., virito-balloon
- coordinated: e.g., virtio-mem coordinated via the RamDiscardManager

Reviewed-by: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta@cloud.ionos.com>
Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
Cc: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Cc: Igor Mammedov <imammedo@redhat.com>
Cc: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta.linux@gmail.com>
Cc: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Cc: Auger Eric <eric.auger@redhat.com>
Cc: Wei Yang <richard.weiyang@linux.alibaba.com>
Cc: teawater <teawaterz@linux.alibaba.com>
Cc: Marek Kedzierski <mkedzier@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210413095531.25603-12-david@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eduardo Habkost <ehabkost@redhat.com>