[8415] Implement --enable-builtin-ace option for explicit select builtin/system ACE.
* --enable-builtin-ace (default) set use builting in mangos sources ACE version build and use
* --disable-builtin-ace set use installed in system ACE version (if any) or
error if no system version installed. This let easy use system version of ACE
if it prefered by some reasons (for example 5.5.2 ACE package at 6.x FreeBSD)
* This also fix proper detection Stack_Trace.h existance in both cases.
More proper header existance check base at patch suggested by Plaes.
Thanks to Splinter for testing.