epollexclusive: use maxevents=1 for epoll_wait

epollexclusive: use maxevents=1 for epoll_wait

This allows us to avoid both malloc (slow) and alloca
(unpredictable stack usage) at the cost of needing to make more
epoll_wait syscalls in a rare case.

In unicorn (and most servers), I expect the most frequent setup
is to have one active listener serving the majority of the
connections, so the most frequent epoll_wait return value would
be 1.

Even with >1 events, any syscall overhead saved by having
epoll_wait retrieve multiple events is dwarfed by Rack app
processing overhead.

Worse yet, if a worker retrieves an event sooner than it can
process it, the kernel (regardless of EPOLLEXCLUSIVE or not) is
able to enqueue another new event to that worker.  In this
example where `a' and `b' are both listeners:

  U=userspace, K=kernel
  K: client hits `a' and `b', enqueues them both (events #1 and #2)
  U: epoll_wait(maxevents: 2) => [ a, b ]
  K: enqueues another event for `b' (event #3)
  U: process_client(a.accept) # this takes a long time

While process_client(a.accept) is happening, `b' can have two
clients pending on a given worker.  It's actually better to
leave the first `b' event unretrieved so the second `b'
event can go to the ep->rdllist of another worker.

The kernel is only capable of enqueuing an item if it hasn't
been enqueued.  Meaning, it's impossible for epoll_wait to ever
retrieve `[ b, b ]' in one call.