dos: Exclude known relays from client connection count

dos: Exclude known relays from client connection count

This is to avoid positively identifying Exit relays if tor client connection
comes from them that is reentering the network.

One thing to note is that this is done only in the DoS subsystem but we'll
still add it to the geoip cache as a "client" seen. This is done that way so
to avoid as much as possible changing the current behavior of the geoip client
cache since this is being backported.

Closes #25193

Signed-off-by: David Goulet <dgoulet@torproject.org>