migration/multifd: Move header prepare/fill into send_prepare()

migration/multifd: Move header prepare/fill into send_prepare()

This patch redefines the interfacing of ->send_prepare().  It further
simplifies multifd_send_thread() especially on zero copy.

Now with the new interface, we require the hook to do all the work for
preparing the IOVs to send.  After it's completed, the IOVs should be ready
to be dumped into the specific multifd QIOChannel later.

So now the API looks like:

  p->pages ----------->  send_prepare() -------------> IOVs

This also prepares for the case where the input can be extended to even not
any p->pages.  But that's for later.

This patch will achieve similar goal of what Fabiano used to propose here:

https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240126221943.26628-1-farosas@suse.de

However the send() interface may not be necessary.  I'm boldly attaching a
"Co-developed-by" for Fabiano.

Co-developed-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Reviewed-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20240202102857.110210-14-peterx@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>