virtio-mem: Implement RamDiscardManager interface

virtio-mem: Implement RamDiscardManager interface

Let's properly notify when (un)plugging blocks, after discarding memory
and before allowing the guest to consume memory. Handle errors from
notifiers gracefully (e.g., no remaining VFIO mappings) when plugging,
rolling back the change and telling the guest that the VM is busy.

One special case to take care of is replaying all notifications after
restoring the vmstate. The device starts out with all memory discarded,
so after loading the vmstate, we have to notify about all plugged
blocks.

Acked-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Paolo Bonzini <pbonzini@redhat.com>
Cc: "Michael S. Tsirkin" <mst@redhat.com>
Cc: Alex Williamson <alex.williamson@redhat.com>
Cc: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Cc: Igor Mammedov <imammedo@redhat.com>
Cc: Pankaj Gupta <pankaj.gupta.linux@gmail.com>
Cc: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>
Cc: Auger Eric <eric.auger@redhat.com>
Cc: Wei Yang <richard.weiyang@linux.alibaba.com>
Cc: teawater <teawaterz@linux.alibaba.com>
Cc: Marek Kedzierski <mkedzier@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210413095531.25603-6-david@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eduardo Habkost <ehabkost@redhat.com>