slirp: Avoid marking naturally packed structs as QEMU_PACKED

slirp: Avoid marking naturally packed structs as QEMU_PACKED

Various ipv6 structs in the slirp headers are marked QEMU_PACKED,
but they are actually naturally aligned and will have no padding
in them. Instead of marking them with the 'packed' attribute,
assert at compile time that they are the size we expect. This
allows us to take the address of fields within the structs
without risking undefined behaviour, and suppresses clang
-Waddress-of-packed-member warnings.

Signed-off-by: Peter Maydell <peter.maydell@linaro.org>
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Samuel Thibault <samuel.thibault@ens-lyon.org>