migration: not wait RDMA_CM_EVENT_DISCONNECTED event after rdma_disconnect

migration: not wait RDMA_CM_EVENT_DISCONNECTED event after rdma_disconnect

When cancel migration during RDMA precopy, the source qemu main thread hangs sometime.

The backtrace is:
    (gdb) bt
    #0  0x00007f249eabd43d in write () from /lib64/libpthread.so.0
    #1  0x00007f24a1ce98e4 in rdma_get_cm_event (channel=0x4675d10, event=0x7ffe2f643dd0) at src/cma.c:2189
    #2  0x00000000007b6166 in qemu_rdma_cleanup (rdma=0x6784000) at migration/rdma.c:2296
    #3  0x00000000007b7cae in qio_channel_rdma_close (ioc=0x3bfcc30, errp=0x0) at migration/rdma.c:2999
    #4  0x00000000008db60e in qio_channel_close (ioc=0x3bfcc30, errp=0x0) at io/channel.c:273
    #5  0x00000000007a8765 in channel_close (opaque=0x3bfcc30) at migration/qemu-file-channel.c:98
    #6  0x00000000007a71f9 in qemu_fclose (f=0x527c000) at migration/qemu-file.c:334
    #7  0x0000000000795b96 in migrate_fd_cleanup (opaque=0x3b46280) at migration/migration.c:1162
    #8  0x000000000093a71b in aio_bh_call (bh=0x3db7a20) at util/async.c:90
    #9  0x000000000093a7b2 in aio_bh_poll (ctx=0x3b121c0) at util/async.c:118
    #10 0x000000000093f2ad in aio_dispatch (ctx=0x3b121c0) at util/aio-posix.c:436
    #11 0x000000000093ab41 in aio_ctx_dispatch (source=0x3b121c0, callback=0x0, user_data=0x0)
        at util/async.c:261
    #12 0x00007f249f73c7aa in g_main_context_dispatch () from /lib64/libglib-2.0.so.0
    #13 0x000000000093dc5e in glib_pollfds_poll () at util/main-loop.c:215
    #14 0x000000000093dd4e in os_host_main_loop_wait (timeout=28000000) at util/main-loop.c:263
    #15 0x000000000093de05 in main_loop_wait (nonblocking=0) at util/main-loop.c:522
    #16 0x00000000005bc6a5 in main_loop () at vl.c:1944
    #17 0x00000000005c39b5 in main (argc=56, argv=0x7ffe2f6443f8, envp=0x3ad0030) at vl.c:4752

It does not get the RDMA_CM_EVENT_DISCONNECTED event after rdma_disconnect sometime.

According to IB Spec once active side send DREQ message, it should wait for DREP message
and only once it arrived it should trigger a DISCONNECT event. DREP message can be dropped
due to network issues.
For that case the spec defines a DREP_timeout state in the CM state machine, if the DREP is
dropped we should get a timeout and a TIMEWAIT_EXIT event will be trigger.
Unfortunately the current kernel CM implementation doesn't include the DREP_timeout state
and in above scenario we will not get DISCONNECT or TIMEWAIT_EXIT events.

So it should not invoke rdma_get_cm_event which may hang forever, and the event channel
is also destroyed in qemu_rdma_cleanup.

Signed-off-by: Lidong Chen <lidongchen@tencent.com>
Reviewed-by: Juan Quintela <quintela@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Dr. David Alan Gilbert <dgilbert@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Juan Quintela <quintela@redhat.com>