vdpa: move iotlb_batch_begin_sent to vhost_vdpa_shared

vdpa: move iotlb_batch_begin_sent to vhost_vdpa_shared

Next patches will register the vhost_vdpa memory listener while the VM
is migrating at the destination, so we can map the memory to the device
before stopping the VM at the source.  The main goal is to reduce the
downtime.

However, the destination QEMU is unaware of which vhost_vdpa device will
register its memory_listener.  If the source guest has CVQ enabled, it
will be the CVQ device.  Otherwise, it  will be the first one.

Move the iotlb_batch_begin_sent member to VhostVDPAShared so all
vhost_vdpa can use it, rather than always in the first / last
vhost_vdpa.

Signed-off-by: Eugenio Pérez <eperezma@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Jason Wang <jasowang@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20231221174322.3130442-8-eperezma@redhat.com>
Tested-by: Lei Yang <leiyang@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>