mirror: Deal with filters

mirror: Deal with filters

This includes some permission limiting (for example, we only need to
take the RESIZE permission for active commits where the base is smaller
than the top).

base_overlay is introduced so we can query bdrv_is_allocated_above() on
it - we cannot do that with base itself, because a filter's block_status
is the same as its child node, so if there are filters on base,
bdrv_is_allocated_above() on base would return information including
base.

Use this opportunity to rename qmp_drive_mirror()'s "source" BDS to
"target_backing_bs", because that is what it really refers to.

Signed-off-by: Max Reitz <mreitz@redhat.com>