virtio-mem: Support "prealloc=on" option

virtio-mem: Support "prealloc=on" option

For scarce memory resources, such as hugetlb, we want to be able to
prealloc such memory resources in order to not crash later on access. On
simple user errors we could otherwise easily run out of memory resources
an crash the VM -- pretty much undesired.

For ordinary memory devices, such as DIMMs, we preallocate memory via the
memory backend for such use cases; however, with virtio-mem we're dealing
with sparse memory backends; preallocating the whole memory backend
destroys the whole purpose of virtio-mem.

Instead, we want to preallocate memory when actually exposing memory to the
VM dynamically, and fail plugging memory gracefully + warn the user in case
preallocation fails.

A common use case for hugetlb will be using "reserve=off,prealloc=off" for
the memory backend and "prealloc=on" for the virtio-mem device. This
way, no huge pages will be reserved for the process, but we can recover
if there are no actual huge pages when plugging memory. Libvirt is
already prepared for this.

Note that preallocation cannot protect from the OOM killer -- which
holds true for any kind of preallocation in QEMU. It's primarily useful
only for scarce memory resources such as hugetlb, or shared file-backed
memory. It's of little use for ordinary anonymous memory that can be
swapped, KSM merged, ... but we won't forbid it.

Reviewed-by: Michal Privoznik <mprivozn@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: David Hildenbrand <david@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20211217134611.31172-9-david@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael S. Tsirkin <mst@redhat.com>