fetch: replace string-list used as a look-up table with a hashmap

fetch: replace string-list used as a look-up table with a hashmap

In find_non_local_tags() helper function (used to implement the
"follow tags"), we use string_list_has_string() on two string lists
as a way to see if a refname has already been processed, etc.

All this code predates more modern in-core lookup API like hashmap;
replace them with two hashmaps and one string list---the hashmaps
are used for look-ups and the string list is to keep the order of
items in the returned result stable (which is the only single thing
hashmap does worse than lookups on string-list).

Similarly, get_ref_map() uses another string-list as a look-up table
for existing refs.  Replace it with a hashmap.

Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>