diff: remove parseopts member from struct diff_options

diff: remove parseopts member from struct diff_options

repo_diff_setup() builds the struct option array with git diff's command
line options and stores a pointer to it in the parseopts member of
struct diff_options.  The array is freed by diff_setup_done(), but not
by release_revisions().  Thus calling only repo_diff_setup() and
release_revisions() leaks that array.

We could free it in release_revisions() as well to plug that leak, but
there is a better way: Only build it when needed.  Absorb
prep_parse_options() into the last place that uses the parseopts member
of struct diff_options, add_diff_parseopts(), and get rid of said
member.

Signed-off-by: René Scharfe <l.s.r@web.de>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>