hashmap: add API to disable item counting when threaded

hashmap: add API to disable item counting when threaded

This is to address concerns raised by ThreadSanitizer on the mailing list
about threaded unprotected R/W access to map.size with my previous "disallow
rehash" change (0607e10009ee4e37cb49b4cec8d28a9dda1656a4).

See:
https://public-inbox.org/git/adb37b70139fd1e2bac18bfd22c8b96683ae18eb.1502780344.git.martin.agren@gmail.com/

Add API to hashmap to disable item counting and thus automatic rehashing.
Also include API to later re-enable them.

When item counting is disabled, the map.size field is invalid.  So to
prevent accidents, the field has been renamed and an accessor function
hashmap_get_size() has been added.  All direct references to this
field have been been updated.  And the name of the field changed
to map.private_size to communicate this.

Here is the relevant output from ThreadSanitizer showing the problem:

WARNING: ThreadSanitizer: data race (pid=10554)
  Read of size 4 at 0x00000082d488 by thread T2 (mutexes: write M16):
    #0 hashmap_add hashmap.c:209
    #1 hash_dir_entry_with_parent_and_prefix name-hash.c:302
    #2 handle_range_dir name-hash.c:347
    #3 handle_range_1 name-hash.c:415
    #4 lazy_dir_thread_proc name-hash.c:471
    #5 <null> <null>

  Previous write of size 4 at 0x00000082d488 by thread T1 (mutexes: write M31):
    #0 hashmap_add hashmap.c:209
    #1 hash_dir_entry_with_parent_and_prefix name-hash.c:302
    #2 handle_range_dir name-hash.c:347
    #3 handle_range_1 name-hash.c:415
    #4 handle_range_dir name-hash.c:380
    #5 handle_range_1 name-hash.c:415
    #6 lazy_dir_thread_proc name-hash.c:471
    #7 <null> <null>

Martin gives instructions for running TSan on test t3008 in this post:
https://public-inbox.org/git/CAN0heSoJDL9pWELD6ciLTmWf-a=oyxe4EXXOmCKvsG5MSuzxsA@mail.gmail.com/

Signed-off-by: Jeff Hostetler <jeffhost@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>