lib: Fix a shutdown crash with "clustering = yes"

lib: Fix a shutdown crash with "clustering = yes"

This is a bit confusing now, sorry for that:

register_msg_pool_usage() in the ctdb case uses
messaging_ctdb_register_tevent_context(), which talloc_reference()s
the central struct messaging_ctdb_fde_ev of the
messaging_ctdb_context. In messaging_reinit(), we talloc_free only one
of those references and allocate a new messaging_ctdb_fde_ev. The
remaining messaging_ctdb_fde_ev should have been deleted as well, but
due to the second reference this does not happen. When doing the
shutdown messaging_ctdb_fde_ev_destructor() is called twice, once on
the properly reinitialized fde_ev, and once much later on the leftover
one which references invalid data structures.

By the way, this is not a problem with talloc_reference(), this would
have happened with explicit refcounting too.

Bug: https://bugzilla.samba.org/show_bug.cgi?id=14281

Signed-off-by: Volker Lendecke <vl@samba.org>
Reviewed-by: Martin Schwenke <martin@meltin.net>
Reviewed-by: Stefan Metzmacher <metze@samba.org>
Autobuild-User(master): Björn Baumbach <bb@sernet.de>
Autobuild-Date(master): Tue Feb 18 13:05:53 UTC 2020 on sn-devel-184