plugins: separate geany_plugin_set_data() dual-use

plugins: separate geany_plugin_set_data() dual-use

It was found that because geany_plugin_set_data() could be used by both
plugin's init() and geany_load_module(), that it introduced some uncertainty
as to when to call the free_func. init() callers might expect the call
around the same time as cleanup() is called, while geany_load_module()
callers expected the call at module unload time.

It was indeed called at module unload time. But that means that init() callers
cannot call it again reliably after in a init()->cleanup()->init() flow (when
toggling the plugin) without fully unloading the plugin (which is what we do
currently but that's we would want to change).

With the separation we can actually destroy the data depending on where
it was set and do everything unambigiously.