Fix frame height calculations with added menu bar on Windows (Bug#22105)

Fix frame height calculations with added menu bar on Windows (Bug#22105)

* doc/lispref/frames.texi (Parameter Access): Mention pitfalls
when simultaneously specifying multiple parameters for
`modify-frame-parameters' that all may change the frame's size.
* src/w32fns.c (x_set_menu_bar_lines): Don't set
windows_or_buffers_changed here.
(my_create_tip_window, Fx_show_tip): Call AdjustWindowRect
with third argument false.
* src/w32menu.c (set_frame_menubar): Set
windows_or_buffers_changed here.
* src/w32term.c (x_set_window_size): Determine third argument of
AdjustWindowRect from whether the frame has a menu bar and not
from whether it wants one.